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03-10-2009, 03:50 PM
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Part of th eproblem
men and women have different definitions of Sex...Ladies think sex is love and foreplay and sweet and all nice warm things...guys think sex is penetrating a woman and ejaculating...Ladies can live without the latter and guys without the former..guys do not need to know the woman's name, they dont have to like her, they dont have to care to ever see her again yet they will enjoy screwing her...now that isnt the way women think...Using a mans definition of SEx...without doubt ladies do not like sex...
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#32
05-23-2009, 11:58 AM
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Married Men
Ill be doing just what the subject says in the next year. With that in mind, I have to ask those of you who got married during college: how did it affect your school work? Social life? Sleeping patterns? Etc. ?
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#33
06-03-2009, 10:45 AM
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+1 This is very true. Some men can disconnect between the free sex and home. A long time male friend put it this way, "Instead of paying for a hooker for the "suck and fuck" a get it on the side for free and no money is taken from my family. When I'm tired of her or she becomes a PITA, I make my excuses and end things." Personally, I don't understand his disconnect other than his sex drive is much higher than this wife's and while sex is important to him, he didn't marry his wife to only have sex with."
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#34
08-29-2009, 12:59 PM
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i've been lurking on these forums for a while and find a lot of the posts very arousing. this is my first post however.
nette - out of curiosity, i thought you were a lesbian and in a committed relationship with your female lover and not interested in men. so you have a male lover who is married in addition to your usual partner? as for married men. well, i guess my views are - don't go there. like others have pointed out, in 99% of cases, he won't leave his wife, no matter how much he says he loves you/how unhappy he is at home/how he WILL finally leave her once one or more criteria in his life have been satisfied (kids leave home, he has more cash etc etc). as such, i wouldn't involve myself with a married man. we DO deserve more in terms of a r'ship, and you just won't get that from a married man. i do understand the allure of the unavailable man though. i've been lusting after my much older manager for over a year now. there were sparks between us as far back as the initial interview, and it's been getting more intense since then. when i first met him, he was married, however over the 14 or so months we've worked together, little signs point to the fact that it MAY be over with his wife. he's stopped wearing his wedding ring, they no longer talk on the phone during the day (they used to speak about 4 or 5 times daily), and i've noticed he has a lot of phone conversations with his kids (which strikes me as odd, cos if he was still living with them, he wouldn't need to chat to them over the phone to see how they are going). anyway, i digress. my point is, i thought the only reason i was so into him was because he was married. but now that he isn't, i realise i still want him. due to professional boundaries and the catastrophic potential for liability the whole situation would likely bring, i probably WON'T go there. but i think about it constantly, fantasize about having sex with him all the time, and i guess i'm pretty flirty with him whilst we're at work together. anyway, not really sure what my point was. but i don't recommend going for a married man. i guess the only foreseeable exception to this rule would be, if you too were married and you were both stuck in loveless/sexless marriages, and were really just using eachother as a sexual outlet. it's breaking your marriage vows, but i guess at least it's an even playing field (as opposed to say, a married guy sleeping with a single girl). good luck.
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#35
11-06-2009, 11:54 PM
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Your right Dallas wouldve never been the same if JR married Mandy and Sue Ellen married Dusty Farlow. I saw the episodes of Dallas when JR was marrired to Cally and I will tell you I rather see JR and Sue Ellen married to each other than anybody else.
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#36
02-27-2010, 07:14 PM
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03-01-2010, 05:02 PM
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Don't date - just sex
I enjoy sex with a married man because my lover likes to watch us together and his wife doesn't mind either. He gets no-strings pussy and my pussy's tight. I guess tight pussy is a good thing to men because he always talks to my lover about my tight pussy. I've gotten used to him grunting while he's pushing his member into my juicy bits and the feel of him inside me and the mess he leaves when he finishes inside me. I spread my legs and let him in because my lover gets excited by watching me have sex with a man. Also this married man lets me play with his wife after he's finished with me. Since I'm a lesbian, she's more my cup of tea. My lover doesn't mind because she gets to watch too and sometimes makes it an all-girl threesome.
Years ago I had a close girlfriend who "dated" married men only. To a married man, "dated" means sex. Her first married man was the owner of a pizza parlor where she got a part-time job when she was just 16. After only a couple months there, she was sleeping with the married owner. She continued sex with him for years even after he fired her! Sue dates single men too but nothing came of them - except for one who proposed marriage and she put an end to him fast. Sue chose married men who she knew lied to her about their "sick" wife, their "separation", etc. She accepted their lies, their disrespect, their multiple failures, their drama, their wives and children - telling her she deserved better made no difference. Even after she stopped "dating" a married man, she'd met him in the middle of the night for sex. One of the wives found out about her, tracked her down - there was a really big blow-up and she left town. I haven't heard from her since that day several years ago. Sue seemed to need the abuse from these married men.
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03-02-2010, 02:10 AM
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I've also had sex with married men, but only with my sister's husband, and she with my husband. When we were younger we used to share bfs, and as newly weds (before we had kids) used to share husbands. Now we only do it occasionally. When she is unavailable, her husband comes to me for sex, and vice versa. It's worked out well so far.
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