Why women hate porn, and men love it?

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By lordylot on Saturday, May 05, 2007 - 08:00 pm

oh good lord. why is it the woman's fault if the man loves porn? meaning that thw woman must act like what the man loves in porn for him to give up porn? why can't it be a mutual thing? if one doesn't like the other doing it, then the party doing it should cease doing it because he loves her and her feelings matters. just like man can be insecure with his manhood, woman are even more sensitive. woman by ntur compare everything. man compare too but when they feel inadequate they react by being more egoistic and domineering. woman on the other hand will pull back and become even more less confident. when her man needs to look at the fake tits and airbrudhes enhanced porn actresses she feels very inadequate and of course in real life no one is perfect like the image porn presents. just compare porn star pics and the normal everylife pics of REAL people for instance those on literotica.c0m. people come in all shapes and sizes. i enjoy porn once in a while and usually it's a mutul thing - we watch together. my husband will always make sure that it's just 'eye candy' and it's not real. that he loves me and finds ME more exciting. we watch porn just like we look at someone beautiful passing by. that's all. i love beautiful things and so does my husband. it is up to the man to make her partner feel secure, sexy and important! when your woman feels all that you will be sure to reap the benefits as well!

[m0usetrap]

So you dont want your husband looking at porn. Fine. With digital cameras and video cameras, why not make your own? Imagination is a wonderful part of sex, so let him have a selection of candid photos to look at. Only they would be of you.

And so what if he masturbates? You dont have a penis, so you can't possibly imagine how it feels to go without release for several days. After two days, I am literally in pain, and it increases each day. Besides - and this goes equally for women - masturbation allows a person to know their body, their likes, what turns them on, etc. You should learn on yourself and practice on your lover.

[pucff]

I'm male, 45, married 20 years, have 2 kids.
I have looked at porn, and I can honestly say that after a few minutes,
the shock and attractiveness of it really wears off, and I really feel
awkward looking at it.

Not awkward as in "shamed that I'm looking at it." I mean
awkward the way you feel looking at a dead body near a car wreck.

It's not pleasant to look at, doesn't satisfy me, and is so lame and
unattractive compared to what I have with my wife. They can layer on
all the fake boobs and fetishes they want. My wife just has to wiggle a certain way, or look at me or talk to me a certain way, and I'm on fire.

Good luck getting porn to ever do that. Hmmmm... maybe it's because I LOVE HER.

[D.enult]

Sure it may sound cool to you but after some time you stop and think "What the hell am I doing?". I dont know, it just a feeling in my stomach like why do this happen all the time?

Im actually leaving for Asia to drink, party, relax and sleep with women. No not sleep with women but if I know myself right it will happen.

Maybe Im just feeling like this now. Maybe it will be better in a few days. I dunno.

[Reifehom73]

Sure it may sound cool to you but after some time you stop and think "What the hell am I doing?". I dont know, it just a feeling in my stomach like why do this happen all the time?

Im actually leaving for Asia to drink, party, relax and sleep with women. No not sleep with women but if I know myself right it will happen.

Maybe Im just feeling like this now. Maybe it will be better in a few days. I dunno.

[Dyssadia]

These generalizations are killin me (as far as the topic goes) >.>. While this is an old thread (and seeing as I can't post any new threads), I'm finding this "bicameral way of thinking" to be quite destructive. This may be a case where someone isn't exposing themselves to other kinds of cultures and people.

For topic purposes, some women really do detest porn and others are quite freaks about it (I've met a good bunch who are and aren't in the military btw). It really depends on the person, their upbringing and where they are at currently. In other words, it's really/truly demographical and situational.

[john888]

My GF was brought up catholic, which she says never gave her the desire to njoy porn, but then my good mate's ex loved it he was telling me