Age creates less sexual drive it is trueor false

[seitnap]

My sex drive for my age has gotten stronger if anything. I have been with much younger women more that 20 years younger and they have a hard time keeping up.

[Nette]

I don't think age has anything to do with sexual desire.

My lover's nearly ten years older than me and she's always on top of me! She's got to have me at least once a day and more often on the weekends or when she's not at work. She's even mounted me while I'm asleep - shooting to an orgasm from a dead sleep is quite the ride! Sex with her is fabulous too! I've had younger, but never better than her. So when she comes at me with that look in her eye, I know it's going to be good between us!

Sometimes we mix it up and play with a couple who are great friends. The husband mounts me and my lover plays with his wife. This man has to be about 15-20 years older than me, but he wears me out every time! He gives me a 30-45 minute break before he takes me out again. In a normal evening, he takes me two-three times and fiddles with me or his wife the rest of the time. His wife is 46 and looks great for the wear!

[DearElliot]

When I was 18...I could jump into a fast food place and grab a hot dog or hamburger and enjoy it and run..as I got older my taste in food matured..and now I prefer better restaurants, gourmet cooking...we could say. Today for me ejaculation is not what it was at 18, I want to take my time getting there..I want to enjoy the trip...Many wives are still cooking for a husband/man of 50 or 60 as though he were 18 years old..and they expect him to enjoy the hot dog the way he did when he was a kid.
I know women who own 20 books on cooking and not "one" on sex.
Now granted there are a few men who simply are not interested in sex...but that may not always be the case.
Laying in bed naked next to him may not be as exciting as it used to be...its something he has been doing for a long time , maybe it needs to be presented with a bit of work...
Not to say this isnt sometimes the same for ladies..the issue isnt gender specific. I know women who spend hours putting together a great meal and 5 seconds preparing for sex...

[AppedAffora]

Hey, im really sorry for what happened. Going without a license is killer, but i commend you on telling your story. It seems like you have really taken to heart what has happened and have learned from it. I wish you the best of luck.

[meshavan]

Originally Posted by Sunshine

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By Sunshine on Thursday, November 07, 2002 - 05:53 pm

I am at wits end. I am an atractive 50 year young woman who seems to feel like I'm not a woman anymore. It is really depressing. I have been living with a 52 year old bachelor for over a year now and have everything I could want materially but missing love and affection.

When I first started going with him it was great in the bedroom then all of sudden it slacked off having sex more and more. I realized he was semi impotent. He won't take anything to help the situation. I love him dearly and he does other things as far as playing the guitar and piano for me, take me on canoe trips and outside adventures, but when it comes to sex and emotion there is hardly any. He says he must of used it up in his younger days and he is no kid anymore.

He even gave me a vibrater thinking that would cheer me up. I told him that's no fun, what to use it myself? It has no emotion or love and it can't talk. He thought that was funny. Sometimes I have to laugh about it because I'll cry. He had basically been a loner all his life with woman coming and going, not really sticking with him. Does anyone have any advice if this man can not perform then how do I get him to use these little toys he gives me? I don't want to cheat on him because that's not my style and have been married before and I know the experience and intimacy that can be shared with two people and I just want to have that in our relationship if possible, but how? Are there any other woman out there with this same problem? Like they say misery loves company.

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Sunshine

FALSE. Sunshine, STOP mentally blocking a very good of imagination. Your husband bought it for you, so use that dildo on yourself like you it was him, in the flesh. Enjoy it and invite your husband to watch and delight in his own private view of sensuality at its fullest.

[Nette]

I'm 29 and my lover is nearly ten years older than me. When she comes home from work, she wants immediate gratification and I always make certain I'm ready to satisfy her. Sometimes I take a 90 minute nap in the afternoon just to make certain I'm good to go when she gets home at 5:30-6:30pm.

We make out all night long and fall asleep in each other's arms. She loves morning sex and I've woken up with her already on top of me. The sex is always great - even after three years together.

So here's how we are: she's nearly 40 and going strong and I'm ten years younger and taking a nap in the afternoon to keep up with her.

[Rohan81]

Originally Posted by Nette

I'm 29 and my lover is nearly ten years older than me. When she comes home from work, she wants immediate gratification and I always make certain I'm ready to satisfy her. Sometimes I take a 90 minute nap in the afternoon just to make certain I'm good to go when she gets home at 5:30-6:30pm.

We make out all night long and fall asleep in each other's arms. She loves morning sex and I've woken up with her already on top of me. The sex is always great - even after three years together.

So here's how we are: she's nearly 40 and going strong and I'm ten years younger and taking a nap in the afternoon to keep up with her.

Nette

would you like me to join you and your lover and we can have a threesome together. email me if you are interested shahrohan81 at gmail.com

[Nette]

My lover always chooses our partners. I don't have a say in it.

Have you been in a threesome or more before?