Breastfeeding Husband & Children

[MochaMilkMaid]

Nette I have especially enjoyed your updates. I so envy your ANR and feel that in many ways I am like your partner the one who really needs this moreso. So I really value your advice.

In addition to life taking precidence I am also having trouble keeping him from falling asleep during our sessions. It is no question that he is doing this mainly because I want or really need to lactate again (this urge is one that is so strong I have not let go of more at least 5 years or more.) He's very familiar with nursing from when our children were younger so it's not like he'd turn it down either he was very excited at the prospect of me relactating. I just really crave the intimacy that comes with this type of relationship not to mention the other fringe benefits. I know once the milk is flowing there won't be a problem keeping him interested it's just getting him and me to that point. I really wanted to just have him suckle and do hand massage but it looks like I may have to purchase a pump to help out as well.

As far as him sharing at the moment he really doesn't have a choice as his job takes him away for months at a time so I would defintely need in house help to keep and maintain a decent supply. I thought my daughter was the perfect choice since we are already really close. She even sleeps with me while he's away still and looks forward to it. I was thinking back to when she started middle school and was having such a hard time adjusting that I could have just offered my milky breasts and gave her some comfort. Likewise she is still having a hard time making friends since we just moved recently and with high school on the horizon I really want to be there for her this time. I kinda have the same feelings for my husband he does not manage stress well at all and it is causing his blood pressure to rise dangerously so I really want to help him with that among other things.

My son and I on the other hand have a hard time even talking regularly he's 15 but will be 16 in a matter of days. We've been at odds since he was in middle school about grades, clothes, music you name it. We have a hard time keeping him interested in family things outside of dinner and a movie as he is a hard core jock so really not sure about him at all. I know he could use it but he's just going through a really difficult period at the moment coming into his own trying to be an individual yet still fit in at the same time. But one thing is for sure when and if ever he's ready I'd have open arm in a second.

[Laurel]

mocha

dont worry about him falling asleep, he sounds like he is on the go all the time. once you have your full supply of milk in he will stay awake. you might have to find a really good breast pump and use that alot.

as for your son, just let him do what he wants too. yes, he is 16 yrs old and boys will be boys. your daughter sounds like she might be able to help you out. do you sleep naked? has she seen your tits lately? let her come into your room as you are using the breast pumps and let her ask you what you are doing and why. be truthful with her. tell her that you want dad to suck your milky tits and anyone else that wants too. see how it goes. sleeping naked or with just panties on well give her the chance to suck them at night if she wants too. let her help you.

laurel

[MAYA101]

Heyyy!!!!.....woowww so much people responded while I was away. I AM SO SO SO SORRY for my absence for the last few weeks. Me any dad left Mumbai for a few weeks to visit our family in Punjab & we decided to stay their for a few weeks. Well I am back now yay!. I am soooo happy I am back home. Anyways while we were their me & my dad had to share a room since they have a small house....so at night time and early mornings I would breastfeed him. Other then those times I couldn't breastfeed him when we were their. On the way back to Mumbai we had to take a train for 6hrs. We had our own private compartment (cabin) so my dad was free to suckle on my breasts for milk anytime he wanted. For the last 3hrs the train didn't stop & my daddy was really really hungry. He practically ate my breasts. It was the most cutttttttttttttessssssst thing I have ever seen him do. Drained them completely. I NEVER HURT SUCH LOUD SUCKING NOISES FROM HIM. Soo adorable. When we got home we unpacked. Settled down. My dad had to go to the office for a few hours. So I jus here right now writing to u, my closest friends . Thanku Thanku. I can feel my breasts getting heavier again. Maybe I will call the twins over for a feeding. Okay bye I will talk to u latter. Bye.

[meshavan]

Originally Posted by MAYA101

Heyyy!!!!.....woowww so much people responded while I was away. I AM SO SO SO SORRY for my absence for the last few weeks. Me any dad left Mumbai for a few weeks to visit our family in Punjab & we decided to stay their for a few weeks. Well I am back now yay!. I am soooo happy I am back home. Anyways while we were their me & my dad had to share a room since they have a small house....so at night time and early mornings I would breastfeed him. Other then those times I couldn't breastfeed him when we were their. On the way back to Mumbai we had to take a train for 6hrs. We had our own private compartment (cabin) so my dad was free to suckle on my breasts for milk anytime he wanted. For the last 3hrs the train didn't stop & my daddy was really really hungry. He practically ate my breasts. It was the most cutttttttttttttessssssst thing I have ever seen him do. Drained them completely. I NEVER HURT SUCH LOUD SUCKING NOISES FROM HIM. Soo adorable. When we got home we unpacked. Settled down. My dad had to go to the office for a few hours. So I jus here right now writing to u, my closest friends . Thanku Thanku. I can feel my breasts getting heavier again. Maybe I will call the twins over for a feeding. Okay bye I will talk to u latter. Bye.

MAYA101,

I am so glad you enjoyed your vacation. You are correct, in the description of your dad. Your story sounds so cute. I wish I could have seen you.

Meshavan

[oregonmom]

Originally Posted by MAYA101

Anyways while we were their me & my dad had to share a room since they have a small house....so at night time and early mornings I would breastfeed him. He practically ate my breasts. It was the most cutttttttttttttessssssst thing I have ever seen him do.

Maya101: Don't you feel self conscious suckling a grown man especially your daddy? I sometimes breastfeed my adult son, and have been doing it since he was born. But even now I have a hard time keeping his hands from wandering all over my body. He especially likes to play with the other breast when he is feeding. I can tolerate this, but don't like if his hands wander to other places!

How do you handle this?

[Nette]

Get yourself ready to lactate. Buy some blouses for breastfeeding women from an online site. These are great because they cover your breasts, but have a slit to open or a flap to lift to reveal your breasts. While you're inducing, you can stimulate your nipples while wearing these tops without having to strip down. Of course, you have to stop wearing a bra since it only constricts your breasts. I still wear my nursing tops and they're especially good when I'm breastfeeding one of my girlfriends' children. They are very good at simply opening a slit or lifting a flap before latching on and feeding. Your daughter may appreciate this too.

Dry-nursing your daughter when she comes home from school may be the way to go. Wear one of your new nursing tops when you first suggest she suckle. It's far better than stripping down.

Suckling is the best way to relactate, but hand expression and manipulation of the nipples are good too. Breast pumps are the absolute most inefficient way to get your milk coming. I can tell in your post you want to be milky again soon so I hope you stay clear of the breast pump. You'll only get frustrated by lack of results.

Suckling my milk is a great stress reliever for my lover! When she comes home from work, I meet her with full tits because she nurses aggressively after work. She totally needs both tits and we often have sex afterwards to finish her off. While she's suckling my milk, I can feel the stress drain from her body and see it on her face. Thankfully I relish breastfeeding her and so I don't mind her continueing to suck after she's taken all my milk.

Too bad your husband is away from home for so long, but he can always enjoy suckling your milk when he's home. Also, your son may not be "on board" now, but he may decide later to nurse. Then again, he's at an age where he's also likely to find a girlfriend who enjoys breastplay. In any case, it's all good.

Once someone in your family begins suckling your milk, MochaMilk, you cannot go back without hurting someone. So be very sure you can go the distance before you begin.

[milkytits49]

I know my father and his siblings come from a nursing family and his brother also nursed until his wives passing and he seems so lost now. My uncle is 75 and seems very depressed for the past year and has aged tremendously. I know he is missing that intimacy with my aunt since she has gone. I visit him a lot and help him out and he has talked to me about that and other things. i would like to offer nursing and hopefully help his depression. I was thinking about this when I go visit him this evening. Do any of you think this is a good idea? Do you think it would help him with his depression? I love him so much and hate seeing him hurt. Of course being 49 myself I am dry and would have to be sucked a lot. How should I approach him? Any ideas?

[Nette]

Any comfort and relief you can offer your uncle in his old age is virtuous and should be encouraged. When you visit him tonight, remind him how often he's spoken to you about nursing as an adult. Then invite him to nurse from you. Even though you are dry, dry-nursing can still be very satisfying to the one suckling. It's contenting to be at the breast again - nipple in mouth and sucking - even though the woman is dry. I learned this while I was inducing - a surprise to me since I thought the reward was my milk.

Just sit back and let him dry-nurse tonight. I'm certain he'll get very emotional and want to suck for a long time. Switch breasts so your nipples don't get sore. Good luck and such a lucky uncle to have someone like you in his life.

[MochaMilkMaid]

I thought I posted a reply the other day but I guess the board was down or something. At any rate. I am totally commited to relactating this time. I never want to be dry again.

Until I can get help with consistent suckling around the house I am stimulating my breasts every chance I get. I am getting clear drops and they are becoming larger and definitely more consistent. I was reading on another board about how having orgasms/masturbating have helped some women so I am also incorporating that into my routine as well.

I talked to my daughter about it briefly and she seemed interested but at her own pace so I'm not pressing the issue. I think that once I am milky there will be much more interest from everybody. I just need to make sure that I can get there. You're right Laurel I have been handling my husband with kid gloves as he has developed a couple of health issues from stress so that is the last thing I want to do is add more.

Nette you are absolutely right about my woanting to be milky soon, at the moment I eat sleep and drink lactation! Hopefully within the next more I will some some progress even if it's just more consistent drops I'll know I'm on the right track.

[Laurel]

Mocha

congrats, keep up the good work. your daughter will come around, just keep the communication lines open with her and let her see you pump.

Milkytits49

have you gone to you uncle yet? did you offer your breasts to him? how are things going?

Maya

glad you are back from you vacation with your dad. please give us an update on the twins, how offen do you get to see them? how is your dad doing with you nursing the twins?

Please keep everyone updated.

Laurel